put the ssh_config Host:* options in the defaults file so they can be overridden

This gives us the ability to define system-wide definitions for specific Hosts, and their options.

For example, with this in pillar:

```
# this is the place for host-wide SSH config
ssh_config:
  ...
  Hosts:
    # this simplifies cloning with custom params
    # eg: git clone my-git:foo/bar
    my-git:
      User: git
      HostName: git.example.com
      Port: 2222
```

This would add a section in `/etc/ssh/ssh_config`:

```
Host my-git
    User git
    HostName git.example.com
    Port 2222
```

Made a small change to reflect the default sshd_config